{"id":220,"date":"2011-02-09T10:02:56","date_gmt":"2011-02-09T08:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/karder.org.tr\/?p=220"},"modified":"2018-04-21T10:03:58","modified_gmt":"2018-04-21T07:03:58","slug":"mustafa-sahin-karnesinde-kirik-notu-olan-genc-ve-velil-er","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/2011\/02\/09\/mustafa-sahin-karnesinde-kirik-notu-olan-genc-ve-velil-er\/","title":{"rendered":"Mustafa \u015eahin-&#8220;KARNES\u0130NDE KIRIK NOTU OLAN GEN\u00c7 VE VEL\u0130L ER&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 align=\"center\"><b><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">&#8220;KARNES\u0130NDE KIRIK NOTU OLAN GEN\u00c7 VE VEL\u0130L ER&#8221;<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p align=\"Justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><\/p>\n<p>2010-2011 E\u011fitim ve \u00d6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131-bildi\u011finiz \u00fczere-28 Ocak cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc sona ermi\u015ftir. Milyonlarca \u00f6\u011frenci ve binlerce \u00f6\u011fretmenimiz iki hafta s\u00fcren bir tatil yapacaklar. Ancak tatil haberi, kabul edelim ki, her \u00f6\u011frencide sevin\u00e7 duygusu yaratm\u0131yor. Kimi karneler gurur, sevin\u00e7 ve heyecan ya\u015fat\u0131rken; kimileri \u00f6fke, \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00e7 ve hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na neden olabiliyor. \u00d6\u011frencilerin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sert tepki g\u00f6steren ve cezaland\u0131rma yolunu se\u00e7en aileler uzun y\u0131llar onar\u0131lamayacak y\u0131k\u0131mlara yol a\u00e7abiliyor. Velilerin karne d\u00f6nemimde g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmemeleri gereken \u00fc\u00e7 \u00f6nemli nokta var: a)Karne sizin de\u011fil \u00e7ocu\u011funuzundur! Bunu asla unutmamak gerekir karneler genellikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretim verimlili\u011fini de\u011ferlendirir, ki\u015fili\u011fini de\u011fil. Ailenin bir b\u00fct\u00fcn oldu\u011fu ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bu anda ana-babalar\u0131n deste\u011fine gereksinim duyduklar\u0131 da unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r! b)Bazen ana-babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n karnesi ile kendi stat\u00fclerini de\u011ferlendirirler. Veliler ki b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler, karne d\u00f6nemlerinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na verdikleri tepkiler abart\u0131l\u0131 olabilir. c)Di\u011fer bir \u00f6nemli konu ise; karnesinde zay\u0131f bulunan \u00f6\u011frencinin ki\u015fili\u011fi olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. O dersten ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmas\u0131na neden olan e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretim, sosyal ve duygusal nedenler olabilece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek, konu ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r&#8230;&#8217;E\u011fer sinirliyseniz sakinle\u015fmeyi bekleyiniz!&#8217; Zeki olmak iyi karne getirmeye yetmiyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun veya gencin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131, ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ortam\u0131n\u0131n uygun olmas\u0131, sorumluluk duygusunun yerle\u015fmesi, duygusal sorunlar\u0131n\u0131naz olmas\u0131 da \u00f6\u011frenim ve e\u011fitim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 etkiler. Bu nedenle, veliler\/ana-babalar k\u0131r\u0131k karneler i\u00e7in sadece \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, aksine kendilerini de sorgulamal\u0131d\u0131rlar! Karnesinde birden \u00e7ok k\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan \u00e7ocuklara; ana babalar &#8220;ilgi ve sevgi g\u00f6stermekten vazge\u00e7memeli, ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslamamal\u0131, su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ifadeler kullanmamal\u0131 ve kendine g\u00fcveni(\u00f6zg\u00fcveni) sarsacak &#8220;etiketlemelerden&#8221; ka\u00e7\u0131nmalar\u0131 gerekmektedir. \u00d6\u011frenciyi sadece cezaland\u0131r\u0131rken de\u011fil, \u00f6d\u00fcllendirirken de &#8220;\u00f6zen&#8221; g\u00f6sterilmelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015f d\u00fczeyine uygun olmayan, maddi de\u011feri y\u00fcksek hediyeler de \u00f6\u011frencinin ki\u015filik geli\u015fimini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkiliyor. K\u0131saca, \u00f6\u011frencinin karnesinde k\u0131r\u0131k not varsa; * konu\u015fma i\u00e7in acele etmeyin, e\u011fer sinirliyseniz sakinle\u015fmeyi bekleyiniz! * ilgi ve sevgi g\u00f6stermekten asla vazge\u00e7meyiniz! *ba\u015fka \u00f6\u011frencilerle k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n\u0131z! * su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fck ve anlat\u0131mlar kullanmay\u0131n\u0131z! * \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini sarsacak etiketlemelerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z! *ona g\u00fcvendi\u011finizi ve mutlaka ba\u015farabilece\u011fini duyumsat\u0131n\u0131z! G\u00fcd\u00fclemeyi unutmay\u0131n\u0131z! * \u00f6ncelikle ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu derleri konu\u015funuz ve onu onurland\u0131r\u0131n\u0131z! *ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fu derslerle ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini al\u0131n\u0131z, kendisini anlatmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat veriniz! * ara d\u00f6neminde dinlenmesine, oynamas\u0131na, \u00fce\u011flenmesine ve gezmesine mutlaka izin veriniz! *kendi yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da mutlaka g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7iriniz! erin\u00e7li bir s\u00f6mestri tatili ge\u00e7irmenizi ve ikinci yar\u0131da da &#8220;daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131&#8221; olmalar\u0131n\u0131 dilerim \u00f6\u011frenciler ile \u00f6\u011fretmenlerimize.Sayg\u0131 ve sevgilerimle\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;KARNES\u0130NDE KIRIK NOTU OLAN GEN\u00c7 VE VEL\u0130L ER&#8221; 2010-2011 E\u011fitim ve \u00d6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131-bildi\u011finiz \u00fczere-28 Ocak cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc sona ermi\u015ftir. Milyonlarca \u00f6\u011frenci ve binlerce \u00f6\u011fretmenimiz iki hafta s\u00fcren bir tatil yapacaklar. Ancak tatil haberi, kabul edelim ki, her \u00f6\u011frencide sevin\u00e7 duygusu yaratm\u0131yor. Kimi karneler gurur, sevin\u00e7 ve heyecan ya\u015fat\u0131rken; kimileri \u00f6fke, \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00e7 ve hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na neden [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=220"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":221,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220\/revisions\/221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}