{"id":298,"date":"2006-04-15T11:06:27","date_gmt":"2006-04-15T08:06:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/karder.org.tr\/?p=298"},"modified":"2018-04-21T11:07:05","modified_gmt":"2018-04-21T08:07:05","slug":"mustafa-sahin-borderline-kisilik-bozuklugu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karder.org.tr\/index.php\/2006\/04\/15\/mustafa-sahin-borderline-kisilik-bozuklugu\/","title":{"rendered":"Mustafa \u015eahin-BORDERL\u0130NE K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K BOZUKLU\u011eU"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 align=\"center\"><b><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">BORDERL\u0130NE K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K BOZUKLU\u011eU<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p align=\"Justify\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">&#8216;BORDERL\u0130NE K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K BOZUKLU\u011eU&#8217;&#8230;.15.04.2006<br \/>\nbug\u00fcn siz siteseverlerle,s\u0131n\u0131rda(borderline) ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu konusunda baz\u0131 bilgileri payla\u015fmak istiyorum. nedir bu bozukluk? a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakilerden en az be\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile birlikte,gen\u00e7 eri\u015fkinlik(11-14 ya\u015flarda ba\u015flay\u0131p alt\u0131 ile on y\u0131l aras\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fen bir d\u00f6nem) d\u00f6neminde ba\u015flayan,ki\u015filerle olan ili\u015fkilerde,kendilik alg\u0131s\u0131nda ve duygulan\u0131mda tutars\u0131zl\u0131klar ve ani d\u00fcrt\u00fcsel davran\u0131\u015flarla belirgenle\u015fen bir durumdur. 1-ger\u00e7ek ya da varsay\u0131labilecek,olas\u0131 bir terk edilmeyi \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcamak. 2-kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakileri a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp g\u00f6klere \u00e7\u0131karma veya a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 de\u011fesizle\u015ftirip yerin dibine sokma gibi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 de\u011fer-de\u011fersizlik verme ile giden tutars\u0131z ili\u015fkiler. 3-&#8220;kimlik karma\u015fas\u0131&#8221; denilen kendini alg\u0131lay\u0131\u015f\u0131nda,arkada\u015fl\u0131k, cinsel durum ya da \u00f6nem verilen k\u00fclt\u00fcrel-ahlaki de\u011fer anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fiklikler. 4-kendine zarar verme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 fazla olan,2 ya da daha \u00e7ok durumda sonunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden,aniden yap\u0131lan eylmler(aniden \u00e7ok para harcama,madde kullan\u0131m\u0131,h\u0131zl\u0131 ve tehlikeli araba kullanma,birden a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yemek yeme ve uygunsuz cinsel davran\u0131\u015flar vb.) 5-tekrarlayanbir \u015fekilde \u00f6zk\u0131y\u0131m (intihar) giri\u015fimleri,intihar tehditleri,kendi kendine zarar verme (b\u0131\u00e7ak,jilet ile kendi cildini kesme,kafas\u0131n\u0131 yumruklama veya sert yere vurma gibi). 6-duygu durumunda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepkilili\u011fe ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak s\u00fcrekli duygu de\u011fi\u015fiklik durumu (de\u011fi\u015fik saatler i\u00e7inde,de\u011fi\u015fik s\u00fcreler i\u00e7inde,birbirini izleyen \u00f6fkelilik,kayg\u0131,\u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc sevin\u00e7 d\u00f6nemleri). 7-ki\u015finin s\u00fcrekli olarak kendini bo\u015flukta hissetmesi. 8-\u00f6fkeye hakim olamama (kavga etme,ba\u011f\u0131rma ve e\u015fya k\u0131rma vb.). 9-stresle ili\u015fkili gelip ge\u00e7ici kendine k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler veya dissosiyatif (ili\u015fkisiz) belirtiler. rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n as\u0131l \u00f6zelli\u011fi;kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 birebir ili\u015fkilerde,kendilik alg\u0131s\u0131(kendine bak\u0131\u015f, kendini kabul edi\u015f ve kendini sergileyi\u015f) ve duygulan\u0131mda tutars\u0131zl\u0131k ile ili\u015fkileri etkileyebilen tutars\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. bu ki\u015filerde s\u00fcrekli bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k ve reddedilme fikri ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in,bu gibi bir durumun g\u00f6r\u00fclmesi durumunda duygulan\u0131m,kendilik hissi ve davran\u0131\u015flarda \u00f6nemli de\u011fi\u015fiklikler ya\u015fan\u0131r.ayr\u0131l\u0131k ve planlananlar\u0131n olu\u015fmamas\u0131 durumunda,yo\u011fun \u00f6fke ve k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131klar ya\u015fan\u0131r.yaln\u0131z ba\u015flar\u0131na olmaya dayanamaz ve birilerinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na gereksinim duyarlar.bu yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in \u00f6zk\u0131y\u0131ma y\u00f6nelebilirler(dikkat!). hedefleri,inand\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011ferler,arkada\u015fyap\u0131lar\u0131,cinsel e\u011filimleri,benimsedikleri g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler,mesleki heves ve ama\u00e7lar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fkendir.kendilerini s\u00fcrekli bo\u015flukta duyumsad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in,u\u011fr\u015f\u0131p oyalanacak bir \u015feyler ar\u0131yor gibidirler.kar\u015f\u0131dan beklediklerini bulamad\u0131klar\u0131nda \u00f6fkelerini sergiler,sonras\u0131nda bundan dolay\u0131 su\u00e7luluk,pi\u015fmanl\u0131k veutan\u00e7 duygula\u0131 ya\u015far.kendilerini de\u011fersiz,zay\u0131f ve k\u00f6t\u00fc hissederler. depresyon,alkol-madde kullan\u0131m bozukluklar\u0131,yeme bozukluklar\u0131,travma sonras\u0131 stres bozuklu\u011fu ve dissosiyatif kimlik bozukluklar\u0131 e\u015flik edebilir. toplumda, %2-3 dolay\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n nedeni merkezi serotonin i\u015flevindeki azalmaya ba\u011fl\u0131,\u00f6fkeli ve d\u00fcrt\u00fcsel davran\u0131\u015flarla ili\u015fkili olabilece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr.bir di\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fe g\u00f6re;\u00e7ocuk-ebeveyn aras\u0131ndaki rken d\u00f6nemdeki bozukluklardan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmekte,sorumlu tutulmaktad\u0131r(\u00e7ocu\u011fun yeterince dikate al\u0131nmay\u0131p,hislerini ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek,\u00e7ocukta uygun,olumlu ve sabit bir benlik olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nleyecek,s\u00fcrekli deste\u011fe gereksinim duyackt\u0131r.ailede duygusal payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n olmamas\u0131,aile i\u00e7i yo\u011fun \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar,\u00e7ocuk ya\u015flarda ana-baba kayb\u0131 ve\/veya ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131,\u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 fiziksel ve cinsel tacizler borderline ki\u015fili\u011fe e\u011filim olu\u015fturan etmendir). kaynak:1-cumhuriyet bilim teknik. 2-temel britannica,6.cilt,ocak 1993,h\u00fcrriyet ofset.<br \/>\nEkleyen :Mustafa \u015eahin Web Adresi :http:\/\/ Grup<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BORDERL\u0130NE K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K BOZUKLU\u011eU &#8216;BORDERL\u0130NE K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K BOZUKLU\u011eU&#8217;&#8230;.15.04.2006 bug\u00fcn siz siteseverlerle,s\u0131n\u0131rda(borderline) ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu konusunda baz\u0131 bilgileri payla\u015fmak istiyorum. nedir bu bozukluk? a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakilerden en az be\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile birlikte,gen\u00e7 eri\u015fkinlik(11-14 ya\u015flarda ba\u015flay\u0131p alt\u0131 ile on y\u0131l aras\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fen bir d\u00f6nem) d\u00f6neminde ba\u015flayan,ki\u015filerle olan ili\u015fkilerde,kendilik alg\u0131s\u0131nda ve duygulan\u0131mda tutars\u0131zl\u0131klar ve ani d\u00fcrt\u00fcsel davran\u0131\u015flarla belirgenle\u015fen bir durumdur. 1-ger\u00e7ek ya da 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